What is positivity?

Positive thinking is filling up your mind with hope, faith, security, happiness & confidence. Positive thinking is your approach towards the situation. Positive thinking is the energy that you carry with you and within you. The most herculean force in the universe is "the inner force" or "silent force" mentioned by James Allen in one of his books. Rather than a plethora of ambiguity in mind with mixed and multiple thoughts -  "the silent power of thought" is always better.

Positivity around you and within you can change the situation, it can change the thought process, it can evacuate the dull and negative energy around you. It will keep you happy, content, satisfied, blissful, wise and with clutter free mind.


Don’t you run for these things in today’s media dramatic & hectic schedule?


Giving time for yourself is a self-driven thought which can change yourself.


Positivity can be being calm for one person & it can be being content for another. Though the ultimate goal would be the same in terms of giving or expecting results. That's all about positivity and positive thinking.


Why is it necessary?

  • Positivity is necessary to get selected at a job interview.

  • Positivity attitude is necessary for position appraisal at the workplace.

  • Positive thinking is necessary for healthy living.

  • Positive behavior/approach is necessary for maintaining good relations.

  • Positiveness is necessary to create a balance in work life & family.

Let’s read a practical example:

Once there were two employees from Sales & Marketing department. They were Raj and Jay. Their company had got a big project recently and these two got selected for Sales & Marketing of apparel product.


At the scenario - They both got landed at a different location. It was a village in a rural area with no such development in the area or living. People in that village weren't wearing proper clothes. Instead, they wrapped themselves with leaves and rags to cover their body.   


Raj - How can I even sell or market my product of apparels here because no one is educated and there is no development. They won't understand the importance of clothing. They all must be having an orthodox mindset. Who will buy? Forget buying they won't even talk to me. My career is finished. I'm going back and working as an Executive.


Jay - Oh! Wow. I can see opportunity lying right in front of me. The entire market is mine. I can spread the importance of apparel and the benefits. I can sell my product to each and every individual. An opportunity to showcase my skills. And if I give my best and achieve something, likewise I might get more rural villages to look after. Also, there are chances of becoming a Marketing Head for a particular location. This is a kick start of my career.


In above you can see how a positive approach changed the situation & created opportunity.

This is the power of “Silent thought & Positive thinking”.


Now the question left is How?

Was it easy for Jay?

No. Not at all. Nothing comes easy in life. They say "Easy earnings are bigger loses"; "Quick & shorter gratifications are temporary. These things can never be for a long term in your life. And remember, to develop any skill you at least need to practice it for minimum 21 days.

That's why the how to be a positive person will directly cover the implementation part. Practical implementation will lead to practical achievement.


Let’s start enforcing it by taking a

28 Day Positivity Challenge”.

To participate,

Come join us on Instagram @ritzyradhika

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Are you someone who needs more time to manage things?

Are you someone who thinks there is always less time?

Are you someone who finds difficult to manage time?

Then below article is for you. Let’s first identify who you are?

Time is money” you must have heard this in your growing years when you were naive. Since then you must have thought of doing a plethora of things would help you. But that's the trance. Multitasking is good at times, however, it may boomerang on several occasions. To learn time management you need to identify what category you fit in from below.

1. Time Waster: Who doesn't like to relax and chill out. But there's a limit to what and how much you waste time. Sleeping for extra hours on a regular basis as your work schedule might accord you to take that extra dose of sleep or may it be binge-watching TV series or movies on a long weekend. Once you are in the set back mode you start becoming a couch potato. Re-think on above and develop yourself to be in a better vision immediately.


2. Yes Sir or the "HANJI" person: Don't you find a person around you at work, college or parties who say "Jee ha mai sab kar lunga" or "Yes I will do it, no issues". Whether it is to get someone from the station last minute or bringing tea for someone, this fellow has world's time to satisfy everyone. Always ready for everything and never says "No”. They might miss their own deadlines but you’ll see them sorting things for others or solving someone else problems. He or She is the problem solver yet the self trapper of his/her own problems. You’ll never see these grow or develop themselves from a career perspective. And if you’re one of them along with emotional quotient for your friends and colleagues, then you really need to buck up & learn to say “No” as soon as possible for your own betterment.


3. The Busy Bee: Whether you work with dedication for hours or no, doesn't matter. What matters is the deadline and quality work with no ambiguity. This person seems to be busy always. Here there is no smart work at all only hard work in on the platter, the reason behind being so busy and occupied. Procrastination has reached a level that you pay bills only on due dates and remembers important things on deadline dates. Last minute work is your go-to formula. These people complete their work but with a heavy heart and stressful lifestyle.


4. The Prioritizer: This person must have learned from his/her ancestors or else must not have that much work as he/she might be an owner of a company, entrepreneur & so on. People often have misconceptions about them. How can they be perfect? What's the difference between them and others. The simple logic is the focus. Firstly they focus on health and manage time for a regular checkup. Because the biggest secret is "Health is wealth". Money can come and go with times but wealth stays with you forever. Planning is their another secret, then whether it is finishing before project deadlines, health check-up, paying bills or following simple to do list. Since they manage everything well, they get ample of time with their family and friends.

Are you this one? Then, well things are definitely running smoothly for you, unlike others.

But if you aren’t this one and want to learn how to be one?

Stay tuned to this blog or follow me on Instagram.

As we will be taking you through small steps to achieve your target and teach you “To manage time and be a better person”.


Thanks for taking out valuable time to read my blog.


Benny was smart, intelligent and a bonzer student. Benny was amicable with everyone. Benny had a best friend. Her name was Cintra. Cintra was timid, shy yet wise enough at times. Benny and Cintra went to the same school. One morning their teacher called them and chose Benny for the quiz competition. As Benny was intelligent and smart, teachers would always focus on Benny. Cintra was shy but if given a chance would be wise. In high schools, it was always the smarter kids getting their chance. The mediocre never got a chance to prove. Another morning a new teacher was appointed in the school. She was different from others. She felt fascinated to train the underdogs. It was a challenge for her and she believed it was her responsibility to teach and guide the weak first. As they'll need help and not the smarter ones as they would smart enough to deal and slide the ride on their own. That day a unique decision was taken, Cintra was chosen over Benny to perform for the quiz competition. Her (teacher's) endeavor and Cintra’s dedication began. Within no time it was the final day. Cintra had seen Benny preparing, practicing and delivering. Now it was her time. Guess what? This isn't a movie to expect something out of the box. It's simply a reality and fact.

On the quiz day, Cintra was nervous, sweating and didn't had that much confidence. But as mentioned earlier she was wise. She went to the teacher and said "Thank you so much for giving a chance. It means a lot. I have changed myself during these training days. Not only me but your decision has changed the lives of many as they now feel proud of the space they've got for themselves. I also want to thank my friend Benny as unknowingly I have learned many things from her. I can't guarantee you that I'll get a trophy or win the competition but I'll give my 100%. Also, I believe this is just a start and there's a lot to do. I thank you from bottom of my heart. Now there will always be equality among all students and everybody would be allowed to prove themselves. No one will be ignored or given less importance." The teacher was so happy to see and hear Cintra. She could sense the change she wanted to make by changing the mentality of people. There was this sudden noise from the back of the door. No wonder it was Benny listening to the conversation. Benny was curious to know about Cintra. Benny had also learned a lesson that being a friend she could have helped her(Cintra). Perhaps whenever it was a matter of intelligence she could never think of Cintra. She would always hang out with her smarter friends and asked for help. She wasn't able to understand Cintra’s feelings & fear. Benny also thanked the teacher many times. And from then on, the duet "Benny- Cintra” always worked together & helped each other to grow.


Learning :

  • Friend / Individual : Make sure no one is left out or there are categories set out for people.

  • Parents - See to it if your child is facing issues like Cintra.

  • Also, parents like Benny's parents make sure your child is helping at least one child like Cintra.


Moral

Let’s come together and make this world a better place to live in.



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